Archive for June 2015

I am heading to Vegas for BBWcon and doing a tour on the way there.  If you would like to set up something feel free to email me at wendy@hotwendywilliams.com.  Note I only have a few days in a city therefore pre booking with a deposit is ideal to insure we are able to meet up.

June 27th-  One day only in Columbus, Ohio

June 28th/29th- Dayton, Ohio

June 30th- One day only in Collinsville, Illinois  (St. Louis area)

July 1st/2nd-  Springfield, MO

July 3rd/4th-  Amarillo, TX

July 5th/6th-  Albuquerque, New Mexico

July 7th-13th-  Las Vegas, NV

*****Things could change so email before to make sure the dates are happening as scheduled!

Every 3rd Friday in Lexington, Ky at BlueGrass Connections I have a T-Girl and Admirers Party.  This last party on June 19th was AMAZING with a great turn out.  We had five dancers (Kim, Nikki, Britney, Victoria and Heather) plus myself.  There were quite a few ladies that attended, lots of couples and of course guys came in and out all night.  We have DVD and toy giveaways, a busy lap dance room, and lots of people have fun.  The next party is July 17th, so I hope you can come out.

Location: 942 Winchester Road  Lexington, KY at Bluegrass Connections

Over 140 pictures (softcore) are on my website WendyWilliamsXXX to see the ladies!

 

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Hey everyone I am excited to return to Vegas in July.  While in Vegas I will be shooting content for my website so any guys who are wanting to shoot with me please EMAIL me at wendy@wendywilliamsxxx.com.  While in town I will be attending BBWCON which is 10-12th at the Westgate Casino and Resort.  So if you want to see tons of beautiful BBW women, seminars and Award show then get your tickets NOW.. I hope to see a lot of guys who are into TS women and BBWs come out and show me some support.  So whose coming to see me?

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I wanted to talk or blog about a topic that lately that has left me speechless and worried at times, especially a topic in 2015.  For my 10 plus years in the Adult Industry I have always followed the Porn standards of monthly testing whether it be by Industry Standards or at a Health Department.  In all honesty I was never a big advocate of bareback either in my personal life or in Porn work.  In my Porn videos I was always at ease because I could request and verify my partners test.  Now in escorting or “hooking up” I have almost always lived by the cardinal rule “to treat every guy like he is positive” so SAFE SEX.  It hasn’t been until lately that I noticed something in the younger guys on dating sites like Tender and Craigslist that has me worried that our younger generation is clueless to STD education.  I love younger guys and when I am in the mood to hook up or get that urge then I’ll post an ad or check out an app.  Lately I can not tell you how many times guys have asked “are you clean” or “are you disease free”?   REALLY?  Guys do you really think that by asking the question to a stranger that he or she will be honest?  Maybe by asking you feel a sense of false security but that is total bullshit.  I have found myself becoming defensive NOT because I am offended by the question but I am shocked that all it would take is a “yes” and you are ready to get naked.  Then I started thinking since most of these guys identify as “straight” is it because I am a transsexual women you are asking this?  I mean would you ask a genetic female “are you clean”?  I would almost bet the answer is no, magically a vagina will escape many of the stereotypes that I as a transsexual women have to indulge for a few moments of sexual bliss.

I was in Tennessee when I met a 23 year old African American male off Tender and once we talked about me being a TS and his “curosity” of course the famous line comes out like verbal garbage “are you clean”?  I without hesitation said “Do you think a total stranger who is horny is going to give you an honest answer”?  It took a few moments for him to respond and he said “well are you”?   I guess he just didn’t get it.  Obviously as part of the LGBT community I am not naive to the epidemic that was HIV in the 70’s or have I forgotten about the many friends I have lost to the disease, I guess with that history I am a bit more touchy on the subject but it doesn’t excuse the ignorance that comes with the question “Are you Clean”?   I don’t live in some utopia to think that everyone is clean and everyone is honest.  These guys are probably thinking with the other head and don’t want to face the reality or feeding into the stereotypes of transsexual women all being dirty whores with no morals.  But I am not helping that stereotype of being a slut online either so I can’t be shocked but I can be sadden by it.

Guys “Am I Clean”?   YES!  However not every person you decide to stick your dick in is going to be truthful thus why HIV and other STD’s are still an issue.  You should be focusing on SAFE SEX which still feels good.  Nothing wrong with buying a HIV test from a drug store and both you and your partner taking it, but don’t be naive if someone is also offended by that but wouldn’t you feel better knowing for sure there is a test and not taking someone’s word.

 

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